Steven Vern Oellermann

*Please note the change in visitation and service dates* Steven Vern Oellermann, beloved father, grandfather, family member, and friend, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, on May 20, 2026, at GMC Extended Care. He was 71 years old. In the weeks prior to his passing, CT and MRI imaging revealed a brain mass that contributed to his declining health alongside the challenges he had long faced from Parkinson’s disease. Visitation will be held at Silha Funeral Home in Glendive on Friday, May 29, 2026 from 6:00PM until 8:00PM. Funeral services will be on Saturday, May 30, 2026 at 10:00AM at Our Savior Lutheran Church in Glendive with Pastor Greg Lucido officiating. Interment will be in the Dawson Memorial Cemetery in Glendive. Silha Funeral Home of Glendive has been entrusted with the arrangements. Steve was born in Glendive on December 22, 1954. He was raised on the family farm near Bloomfield during his youth. He graduated from DCHS in 1973 and furthered his education at Dunwoody Industrial Institute in Minneapolis, earning a degree in Refrigeration and Appliance Repair. Steve married his sweetheart, Nila Patterson, in 1981. They welcomed two sons in 1985 and 1987. He enjoyed maintaining the farm and loved spending as much time as he could out there making memories with his family. Steve was a hardworking provider who took pride in his work throughout his life. For many years, he was self-employed as an appliance repairman, earning the trust of countless customers through his skill, honesty, and ability to fix what others could not. Later in his career, he worked for the railroad as an electrician, where his strong work ethic continued to serve him well. Steve enjoyed his retired years by starting his mornings with coffee and good company at the Bloom & Vine and spending many afternoons at YRI, where he formed friendships and enjoyed being part of the community. After losing the ability to drive, he embraced riding his e-trike, enjoying the independence and adventure it provided. He also loved cooking and took pride in working on his old car, always appreciating the satisfaction of a project completed with his own hands. A highlight in Steve’s life was becoming a grandfather. To some of his grandchildren, he was affectionately known as "Pawka," a title he cherished with honor. Following the loss of his beloved wife, Nila, in 2014, Steve began a difficult journey with Parkinson's disease. For more than a decade, he faced the challenges of the disease with remarkable courage. Despite countless physical and mental hardships and decline, Steve persevered with strength, resilience, and determination. He endured many difficult days, yet continued to move forward with the heart of a fighter, inspiring those around him through his example. Steve was blessed by the support and frequent companionship of his best friend, Tim Christianson. Their friendship provided comfort, laughter, and encouragement, and Tim’s presence became an invaluable part of Steve’s life. The Oellermann family is deeply grateful for the kindness and devotion Tim has shown throughout their more than thirty years of friendship. Steve was also profoundly grateful for the loving care of his daughter-in-law, Heather, who put many aspects of her own life on hold to care for him full-time during the final months of his life. Her compassion, patience, and selflessness allowed Steve to remain surrounded by family and dignity during a difficult chapter of his journey. One of the most meaningful chapters of Steve's final years was the opportunity to build a home alongside his son, Matt, his best friend, Tim, and grandson, Adler. Constructed with the purpose of helping care for Steve as his needs increased, the project became far more than a house—it became a lasting symbol of family, love, and time spent together. Despite the challenges he faced, Steve took pride in standing its walls, helping the home take shape and in contributing anywhere he could. The memories created during the construction of a permanent structure built side by side with each other will remain a treasured reminder of him always. Every room, wall, and detail stands as a testament to the bond they shared and the legacy he leaves behind. Steve was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Nila Oellermann; his parents, Vernon and LaVerne Oellermann; his sister-in-law, Deanette Oellermann; and his cherished nephew, Kevin Oellermann. He is survived by his sons, Matt (Heather) Oellermann and Mike (Shauna) Oellermann; his 3 brothers Dean Oellermann, Stuart (Manuella) Oellermann and Doug (Sharon) Oellermann; his six treasured grandchildren; nieces and nephew; and many extended family members and friends who miss him dearly. Steve will be remembered for his humor, perseverance, love for family, appreciation for friendship, and the quiet strength he displayed throughout life’s greatest challenges. While Parkinson’s may have taken much from him, it never took away his determination or the love he held for those closest to him. His family finds comfort in knowing that his struggles have ended and that he is reunited with his wife and loved ones who have gone before him. His memory, the example he set, and the perseverance he demonstrated throughout his life will remain in the hearts of all who knew and loved him. "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith." — 2 Timothy 4:7 Remembrances and condolences can be shared with the family at: www.silhafuneralhomes.com.

Steven Vern Oellermann

December 22, 1954 - May 20, 2026

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December 22, 1954 - May 20, 2026

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